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Can You Fix This?
How many times that a child has asked you to fix a broken toy? It is more likely that you can recall the situation rather than the count. All of us have situation(s) that you desire to be fixed. Can you fix it? At least once a month, my husband gets that small request from me. “Can you fix this?”
Honestly, I do make an attempt before asking, but in the end, usually, I find it easier to give objects to him. Consequently, it works in both of our favor. True, I still need his assistance, and he can appreciate me for asking (ha-ha).
Trust Factor
It is notable that based on our past, I ask him to do this again and again. The thought is that you did it before, so I believe you can do it again. Never mind that the problem might be more complex. The belief is that he has the necessary tools to get the job done. If not, he can acquire them. That is the trust factor. I trust him to do his very best for me. Thankfully, it continues to be a reciprocal trust that has lasted over decades.
Why Does this Work?
There are two simple, but important reasons that this continues to work for us. First, I recognize where we are in our season. We are in our advance years. Physically, our bodies have changed. Which means, that patience is key to resolution. For example, his hands are akin to Uncle Ritis (arthritis). The project may take longer, but there is a favorable outcome. So, be patient.
Second, my response matters. How I show my appreciation determines if he will continue to lend a helping hand. A kind, thankful word and my body language speak throughout the process. From the beginning, I express that I have a need and my sensitivity to our season is clear. I am willing to listen to his response(s) to my request. Even if the resolution may not be as I want, it is abundantly clear that I have faith in his capacity to try.
A Glimpse in Handling Broken Things
While this is a simple scenario, it is what we must do as a believer. Our faith in God comes from our experiences with Him. Whatever the situation, faith and hope are working together in our favor for the best resolution. As people, we are limited but not God. It is foolish to view God’s resolutions by our human limitations. Thus, it is wise to speak to ourselves about how to handle broken things:
- God is boundless, unlimited. Psalm 147:5 – “Great is our Lord and mighty in power; his understanding has no limit.”
- I am unique. Psalm 139:14 – “I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.”
- My dependence is on God. Romans 12:2 – “Do not conform to the pattern of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.”
- My gratitude is my response. 1 Thessalonians 5:18 – “Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.”
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