Wellness Warriors Take the Lead Interview

Featuring Rev. Dr. Gardenia Bulluck

Episode Summary

Podcast Interview Script Edited Version

Host: Today, we’re joined by Rev. Dr. Gardenia Bulluck, a true believer in Servant Leadership that is focused on serving others.

Host: Thank you for being here and sharing with us.

Gardenia: I’m glad to be here. Please call me Gardenia.

Host: Sure. Thank you, Gardenia. First, what inspired the series Wellness Warriors: Taking the Lead?

Gardenia: This series honors my audience and subscribers around the world, representing more than fifty countries. Though we come from different backgrounds, we share something meaningful: we are believers striving each day to grow stronger in our walk. Our faith matters deeply to us. Through shared experiences with other believers, I’ve seen a common desire to be well spiritually, emotionally, and physically to help bring others to Christ. In this series, I highlight thirteen episodes from my blog posts that speak to wellness as a servant leader. Because of the challenges we face each day, we are warriors. We strive to take the lead—and the responsibility—for actively living what we confess.

Host: That’s such a powerful way to frame wellness—as spiritual, emotional, and physical. When you talk about believers taking the lead in actively living what they confess, what does that look like in everyday life?

Gardenia: To me, actively living what you confess in everyday life means acknowledging God first, asking the Holy Spirit for guidance, serving others as you are led, and always giving thanks and showing gratitude to the Lord.

Host: That’s a beautiful foundation. For someone listening who wants to grow in that kind of daily obedience and gratitude, what is one practical step they can begin taking today?

Practical Steps for Engagement

Gardenia: Of course. I would encourage listeners to start by asking God for help right where they are. I also invite them to read our blog posts, because my goal is to offer practical steps that engage and encourage both new and seasoned believers. My hope is that every person will find in us a supportive community, no matter where they are in their faith walk. And most importantly, read the word, every day.. Find a translation that suits you, easy to understand. There are many different versions. Find one that will help you in walking this journey.

Host: That’s a helpful starting point. Why do you think beginning with something simple can make such a meaningful difference?

Gardenia: I think it begins with something that truly is simple. Just come! Christ says, “Come. I would say that is the first step. Start with a simple first step. Accept God into your life. Sometimes we think growth has to begin with something big, but often it starts with a simple prayer, a willing heart, and one act of obedience. When we make space for God in our everyday decisions, He begins to shape how we think, how we respond, and how we serve others.

Host: I love that reminder that growth can begin with something simple. As you think about the wellness journey, what are some common challenges believers face when trying to stay spiritually, emotionally, and physically well?

One Difficult Challenge

Gardenia: I’m truly grateful for that question. Recently, I wrote a blog post about some of the challenges believers face. That blog included strategies based on my own personal experiences. The post is titled Overcoming Common Challenges Faced by Servant Leaders. One of the most difficult challenges for believers is learning how to think beyond “self.” In many ways, that goes against what we have often been taught. It is true that we must heal ourselves, but that does not mean we stop helping others. In fact, part of healing ourselves involves serving others. There is a natural joy that comes from helping people, and that joy supports our spiritual, emotional, and even physical wellness.

Host: Thank you, Gardenia, for sharing such meaningful insight with us today. As we close, I want to remind our listeners to check out the upcoming episodes in the series Wellness Warriors: Taking the Lead. Each episode will continue exploring what it means to grow in faith, pursue wellness, and take the lead in living out what we confess.

Gardenia: Thank you for having me. I’m excited for listeners to continue the journey with us and to be encouraged through each upcoming episode.

Host: And to our listeners, thank you for joining us. Be sure to follow the series and stay connected for more conversations in Wellness Warriors: Taking the Lead.

Overcoming Common Challenges Faced by Servant Leaders

Estimated reading time: 1 minute

Identifying Common Challenges Faced by Servant Leaders

Practical Solutions for Overcoming Leadership Challenges

Examples of common challenges in serving others first and repositioning of self comes from external and internal pressures. Three common ones are:

Untrained people

The Role of Faith in Navigating Leadership Obstacles

Evaluating Your Growth and Progress as a Servant Leader

Progress

Servant Leadership NOW: "Stepping Up Your Leadership Call"

Celebrating the Impact: Stories of Transformative Servant Leadership

Estimated reading time: 5 minutes

Understanding Transformative Servant Leadership

Greenleaf’s Foresight

Why Transformative Servant Leadership

First, the word transformative, by definition, is about change. Second, the word servant, by definition, is about serving. Third, the word leadership, by definition, prioritizes guidance. Together, the philosophy of Transformative Servant Leadership is the continuity of change for serving and guidance beyond self. In contrast to other leadership models, the primary goal is to serve others with humility. That is a higher standard than any human can achieve without true guidance.

Transformative Servant Leadership model advocates “Grace.” The same grace that is given to you must be afforded to others. Therefore, to describe oneself as a Transformative Servant Leader is to wrestle with the weight of suffering, challengers, and victories under the free gift of GRACE.

Inspiring Stories of Transformation

Traditional leadership was my foundation in the business world; it was useful, in that roles and assignments were clearly defining. Even in education, as a leader, although I was providing a great service, leadership was still a more traditional in style. However, my most humbling experiences stem from learning the principles baked into Transformative Servant Leadership.

In fact, any story that I have about prosperity is because of grace. No silver or gold could buy what God did in transforming me. At the appropriate time, I will share more about the merciful Father who continues to give me more than I deserve. But for now, I share that those experiences of grace are my testimonies and causes of my willingness in supporting others for transforming their relationship with God. Perfection is not a requirement for transforming as servant leaders. One of the most effective means of transformation in leadership is sharing your truth. Unfortunately, there are too many leaders who hide behind their “coat of arms.”

The Role of Storytelling in Ministry

Encouraging Servant Leadership in Your Community

  • Building relationships or badgering for submissiveness
  • Harvesting or hindering
  • Hospitable or Hoarding (Matthew 25:37-40)
  • Blessing or persecuting (Matthews 5; the Beatitudes)
  • Creating or Misusing Opportunities for Transformation

Servant Leadership NOW: "Stepping Up Your Leadership Call"

Understanding the Role of Servant Leadership in Modern Times

Estimated reading time: 5 minutes

Defining Servant Leadership

Key Principles of Servant Leadership

Other Guiding Principles

Benefits of Servant Leadership in Organizations

Is it possible to adopt a servant leadership approach that can improve relations, i.e., team, communities, groups? Yes. However, only if you, as a leader, is willing to carry out this leadership style of love and serving others first – the two greatest commandments. Fortunately, we have Jesus as our model. Jesus often criticized religious leaders about their leadership styles. Their insensitivity, lack of compassion, hypocrisy, greed, self-pride, and lusts corrupted the organizations that they lead. Unfortunately, there is very little evidence in these narrative stories that they turned from this type of leadership.

Implementing Servant Leadership Practices

Hence, a servant leader must demonstrate social responsibility through acceptance of others within the community in which you are called to serve. So, how does one take actionable steps as a leader to adopt servant leadership methods? Here are four simple things you can do to implement servant leadership practices:

  • Respect and remember who the CEO is. It is God who knows the heart of every individual.
  • Recall that it is “His will” that must be done, not yours. He is the One who has 360 degrees vision.
  • Examine the potential of your actions. Acknowledge if you are driven more by your personal motive, ideology, or opinion.
  • Be an ambassador for healthy relationships. Ask yourself, “Am I a light that build healthy relations within the community?”

Servant Leadership NOW: "Stepping Up Your Leadership Call"

I Know What You Did

Estimated reading time: 4 minutes

October 28, 2023 Update – Thinking “How Am I Doing?”

Based on a novel, a popular film was made, called “I Know What You Did Last Summer.” For this summer, a few of us are on the “treadmill” in helping others in this post-pandemic (especially young people) who are going through traumatic times. I am committed to the work/training of providing a safe space. I accept the challenge of being well (in all areas) because well people can be most effective in helping others (Physician, heal thyself). So…

With that being said, as part of my wellness focus (spiritually, physically, mentally, emotionally, psychologically, etc.), my thoughts began with this is a “Fabulous Friday,” I am here and I am a winner; I am a blessing and I choose to bless someone else today. How is that for psychological thoughts? Not too deep, huh? Still, you and I know the importance of our thoughts – our mindset.

A Mental Challenge

Physical Challenge (From thought to action)

Today, my journaling starts as a physical one. Yes, I said it right. This is my “Fabulous Friday Physical Journal.” I tuned in to my Silver Sneakers virtual class. Yes, in the beginning session, but I felt the burn. I am just returning to class and some of the stretching exercises felt brutal to the bones.

As we picked up the pace, I felt the challenge even more. It was what Stephanie (our instructor) said that put me at ease. Her words made me relax and breathe. Paraphrasing, she said, “If you are not feeling challenged, then you are in the wrong class. I want you in my next level session.” Thus, I share this thought with you…

“If it is too easy, then you may be working below your potential.”

Emotionally

Stephanie recognized that our emotional thoughts transcended to our physical challenge and success.

As a servant leader, sometimes I just feel that “burn.” As a caregiver, I am called to ‘STRETCH.” Like many people, there are times we feel as if things are heavier than we care to admit. We tend to think of ourselves as useful so we must be supercharged. For instance, every day, I must support my mother with her physical and emotional challenges. No matter the “wear and tear” I feel, she needs me more, I think. Mostly, I am so thankful that she is here. Every day that she and I wake up, it is a blessing. The thought of my not being able to kiss and hug her is more tedious than helping her with everyday routines. The thought that one day I may not have this opportunity is the most dreadful one of all. So, breathe as you stretch.”

Scripturally

Finding solace in Chapter 3 John 1:2, “Beloved, I pray that all may go well with you and that you may be in good health, as it goes well with your soul.” So, finding scriptural meaning behind all of the “woos” gives me that inner strength. As I shared before, that supercharge comes from people like you as part of my special, God-given circle, who is providing meaningful thoughts for such a time as this. This type of sharing and caring promotes health and wellness.

This Summer, This Moment in Time – To Your Health

I choose to bless you and say “Thank You” with this little video. A “thank you” is healing for the soul; “thank you” is a reminder that it could have been me who feels lost. As a global community, have seemingly lost sight of what is best for another, I find that it is still a summertime of healing and refreshing so that we can be well.

This summer, Althea, a past co-worker, has continuedly uploaded these beautiful pictures from her garden. She is spreading beauty and joy to us in ways that she may not even be aware of. These flowers bless this flower Gardenia. With kindness, I share them with you to say, “Thank You.” So, I know what she is doing this summer to maintain a place of wellness and I hope it blesses you.

I do not know what next summer will bring, but for this summer, I pray that you will be well in all areas of your life. I pray that you stretch and breathe in these moments for your mind, body and soul. Even if you feel the burn, it means that you are moving forward, reaching for the next level. I hope, in your reflection, that you look back and remember this summer with love and joy – because you stretched forward and did not give up.

“Safe Space” to you.


Servant Leadership NOW: "Stepping Up Your Leadership Call"

Understanding God’s Calling: A Reflective Journey for Servants

Winding dirt trail through grassy hills with sunset and mountains in background

Estimated reading time: 5 minutes

The Nature of God’s Calling

Reflective Practices for Understanding Your Calling

  • (3) Journaling – Journaling is therapeutic. Writing or drawing our feelings and thoughts reduces anxiety. We can express ourselves in a creative way to God. I have several different types of journals, including a praise journal. We are individuals. Each person gets to choose what is best for that individual. The way you choose to journal is a personal choice. It is the expression of your heart to God; your pondering (Psalm 111:2). How ever you choose, the focus is to optimize your optimize mental health and spend time with God.

Challenges in Discernment

Fulfilling Your Purpose through Service

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